For years, women have been told to wait until they’ve had three consecutive miscarriages before any proper investigation begins. This “rule of three” is something we see all too often—and it frustrates us deeply. Because this isn’t just a number. It’s three devastating losses, three emotional rollercoasters, and three missed chances to identify and resolve the issue earlier.
Let us be clear: There is no scientific or ethical justification for waiting until three miscarriages to start testing. This policy isn’t medically sound—it’s economically motivated. It was created within national healthcare systems to manage budgets, not to protect your future family. It’s a cost-control method disguised as a care standard. Especially when private, self-funded testing options are available.